Episode the thirty-sixth; wherein the Pageist celebrates a year of doing the podcast and shares thoughts on the books reviewed prior to having the show. Books reviewed… quite a few.
Episode the thirty-fifth; wherein the Pageist takes some time to schedule in some self care, gets excited about kind fans and lesbian porno comics and returns to the Marketplace…again. The book this episode is The Academy by Laura Antoniou.
Episode the thirty-fourth; wherein the Pageist is confounded by inconsistent censorship, attempts to perform nonconsensual submission and takes an academic view of kink. The book reviewed is Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities by David M. Ortmann and Richard A. Sprott.
Episode the Thirty-third; Wherein the Pageist thanks her first Patrons and talks porn with Dr David Ley.
Episode the Thirty-Second; Wherein the Pageist deals with misogynistic British people, revamps her website as a service to the community and learns all sorts of interesting things about porn. The book reviewed is Ethical Porn for Dicks: A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure by Dr David Ley.
Episode the Thirty-first; Wherein the Pageist finds some femmecocks, tries to find sexuality in England and discovers her cross gender self. The book reviewed this episode is Miss Vera’s Cross Gender Fun for All.
Episode the Thirtieth: Wherein the Pageist offers commiserations and support to those affected by the recent election and discusses outing as consent violation. The book reviewed is My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging and Polyamory by Cooper S. Beckett.
Episode the Twenty-Ninth; Wherein the Pageist gets philosophical then pornographic and keeps a sexy promise. The book reviewed is My Dad Wrote a Porno.
Episode the Twenty-Eighth; Wherein the Pageist explores the good, the bad and the sexy things that happen when kink is portrayed on film.
(Apologies to the filmmakers for calling your work bad)
Episode the Twenty-Seventh; Wherein the pageist settles into her new home, adapts to a new way of life and learns all about Leather in all its forms. The book reviewed this episode is Life, Leather and the Pursuit of Happiness: Life, History and Culture in the Leather/BDSM/Fetish Community by Steve Lenius.
Episode the Twenty-Sixth; In which the Pageist settles in to her new country, learns why people are into playing with taboo and becomes more comfortable with her little side. The books reviewed this episode are The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo by Mollena Williams and The Toybag Guide to Age Play by Lee ‘Bridgett’ Harrington.
Episode the twenty-fifth; wherein the Pageist returns to the Marketplace for the third time to learn how trainers become trainers. Also, a note from a fan and show developments.
Episode the twenty-fourth; wherein the Pageist talks with author, educator and instigator Lee Harrington.
Episode the twenty-third; Wherein the Pageist explores a new app for kinksters, laughs until she cries at a podcast and develops some new ideas for sadistic roleplay. The books reviewed this episode are the first three volumes of the comic Sex Criminals by Matt Fraction and Chip Zdarsky.
Episode the Twenty-Second; Wherein the Pageist tries a new app designed for kinksters, discovers a podcast for sexy thinkers and learns to be ethically slutty.
The book reviewed this episode is The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships and Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.
Episode the Twenty-first; Wherein the Pageist has a big announcement, discovers a new way to know when you're really losing it and reviews Traversing Gender by Lee Harrington
Episode the Twentieth; Wherein the Pageist gets productive in a geeky way, is all kinds of grateful to a particular bondage enthusiast, and speaks with a very nice lady about a great way to help incarcerated sex workers.
Episode the Nineteenth; Wherein the Pageist interviews the knowledgeable Nookie (also known as MsNN) about Female Led Relationships and much more.
Episode the Eighteenth; Wherein The Pageist is utterly baffled by recent decisions made on the largest kink website in the world, Fetlife, and offers a solution.
Episode the Seventeenth; Wherein the Pageist learns the importance of sticking to her diet in her dotage, but doesn't allow ageing to dampen her love of coloring books. This week's book reviews are a trilogy of non-fiction books about Female Led Relationships by NookieNotes.
Intro and Announcements
Coloring book Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/983489211/butterflies-dragonflies-and-toadstools?ref=user_menu
Episode the Sixteenth; Wherein the Pageist goes her own way whilst Britain attempts to do the same, (hopefully she'll have better luck). The topic is toxic masculinity and the messages that leads to rape culture and mass violence. Book reviews return next week.
Intro & Announcements:
Brock Turner (Toxic Masculinity & Rape Culture):
Omar Mateen (Homophobia & Misogyny):
Episode the Fifteenth, Wherein the Pageist shares her experiences of her first kinky conference and learns how to communicate her filthiest desires using the newest technology.
The book reviewed this episode is Tina Horn's Sexting: The Grownup's Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digitally. It's an excellent, straightforward, all-genders and orientations-inclusive guide to figuring out what you want in the bedroom and how to ask for and get it.
If you're kinky and you've ever wanted to give some communication tips to your vanilla friends--here's the way to do it.
My Submissive Life:
Kevin and katie: http://www.kevinandkatie.net/
arcane's Attic: http://www.arcanesattic.com/
Email him at: firstname.lastname@example.org
Manor Gear: http://manorgear.com/
Mr Malaprop: https://mmalapropdesign.wordpress.com/things-i-make/
Leather Passions: http://shopleatherpassions.com/
Page with photos of what I bought: http://thepageist.com/2016/06/15/recent-kinky-purchases-show-tell/
Sexting: The Grownup's Little Book of Sex Tips for Getting Dirty Digitally by Tina Horn: http://amzn.to/28XqQWB
Why Are People Into That?! podcast: http://whyarepeopleintothat.com/
Multiamory podcast on writing your profiles: http://www.multiamory.com/podcast/54-polyamory-and-online-dating
Private Photo Vault: https://privatephotovault.com/
Episode the Fourteenth; Wherein the Pageist celebrates another successful trip around the sun and also interviews the charming and intelligent Dr Gloria Brame.
Episode the Thirteenth; Wherein The Pageist discusses power exchange, what it means to her and even figures out what style makes the most sense for her life. (It was extremely obvious--the Pageist can be oblivious.)
The book reviewed is Paradigms of Power: Styles of Master/slave Relationships edited by Raven Kaldera (http://amzn.to/20Y46X1), which is a collection of essays by people in a variety of power exchange relationships.
What I Mean When I Say She's Hot: Being Asexual and Kinky: http://thepageist.com/2015/11/05/being-asexual-and-kinky/
A Handful of Cinnamon: (The My Submissive Life segment in essay form): http://thepageist.com/2016/04/10/handful-cinnamon-power-exchange-kink-sex/
Erotic Awakening interview with Bob Rubel (episode 348): http://eroticawakening.libsyn.com/ea348-bdsm-culture
Episode the Twelfth wherein the Pageist is glad to be back. She talks about two sexy new maps in her life and two sexy books she's read.
The books reviewed in this episode are Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria Brame, William Brame and Jon Jacobs and Different Loving Too: Real People, Real Lives, Real BDSM by Dr Gloria Brame and William Brame.
The first was published in 1993 and was the first book to attempt to show what a wide array of kinksters got up to through interviews, quotes and historical context.
The second was published in 2015 and catches up with some of the original interviewees, but also canvasses newer players about practices and desires. The difference in the scene between the two books is remarkable.
My new theme song comes from Count Boogie of Perverted Podcast: pervertedpodcast.com
The show's listener's map: http://www.travbuddy.com/maps/6928426
Human Sex Map: http://thepageist.com/2016/03/13/my-sex-map/